Study Suggests Men May Show More Patience to Female Friends Than Romantic Partners 

A University of Michigan study found that men may sometimes treat female friends more patiently and thoughtfully than their girlfriends.

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The researchers think it could be because friendships feel less stressful. With a friend, there’s usually less pressure to say or do the “right” thing. Romantic relationships can come with more expectations, which may make people feel nervous or defensive.

Because of this, men in the study were more likely to listen carefully, remember little details, and offer support when talking to a female friend rather than a girlfriend.

In simple terms: When there’s less pressure, it can be easier to be patient, caring, and emotionally present.