How to approach the holidays with people you deeply disagree with

In the Code Switch newsletter, a weekly podcast about race and identity, Leah Donnella explores how to navigate the holidays with relatives whose beliefs deeply conflict with your own. As political and social divides intensify, many face the challenge of breaking bread with loved ones whose decisions may feel morally opposed to their own values.

Key insights include:

Avoid Binary Labels: People are complex and labeling them as simply “good” or “bad” oversimplifies relationships and hinders meaningful dialogue.
Accept Reality: Acknowledge and navigate the reality of loved ones’ actions without denying or necessarily forgiving them. This balanced approach allows for coexistence without erasing harm.
Honor Your Humanity: Civility and unity shouldn’t come at the cost of marginalized people’s dignity or existence. If relationships are rooted in oppression, stepping away is a valid choice.

Ultimately, focus on your own self-awareness, boundary-setting, and the courage to prioritize emotional well-being over forced holiday interactions.

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Source: NPR